
Although we had celebrated Bennett's birthday with a big party the week before, we couldn't let his actual birthday go by uncelebrated!
Never mind that he had not a clue that it was his birthday. He still loved it when I sang "Happy Birthday" to him when he woke up. He loved all the attention at breakfast too. We didn't have any big plans for the day other than a birthday dinner, so we decided to go check out the
Currituck Lighthouse as it was our very last day of vacation and we hadn't see it yet. I'm a sucker for lighthouses and since the Cape
Hatteras lighthouse was too far away, I couldn't miss this one.


I'm not sure about the rest of my family, but I was happy to be there! Grammy,
Pappap, Lorie and Alex accompanied us to the site of the lighthouse, but only Brent and I and the big kids chose to go up in the light. Yes, that's right, I abandoned my baby on his birthday to go explore the lighthouse. I don't think he was offended--Grammy and
Pappap took good care of him!


Grammy with her girls. Pretty soon there will be another little girl
grandbaby to join these two!
Brent and I waited in line with the kids til it was our turn to enter the lighthouse. I think I forgot how tall, curved and claustrophobic a lighthouse feels. You curve up and up as the walls close in closer and closer. I've never been terrified of heights, but I'll admit I was getting a bit anxious as we neared the top. Maura and Tristan showed no fear and just kept trucking up the stairs.


We finally made it to the top. Let me tell you, that little iron railing felt totally insufficient to me! I hugged the wall of the lighthouse and held the children's hands tightly as I peeked over the edge. The views were spectacular and the kids loved looking for our beach house and trying to spy Grammy,
Pappap and Aunt Lorie down below.


It was a really fun experience to share with my big kids and I don't think they'll forget their trip to the lighthouse or it's 214 steps anytime soon! We headed back home soon after to enjoy our last afternoon of relaxation. Brent and Tristan chilled in the warm hot tub. Tristan called it the hot pool.


Bennett loved the pool, but I think he loved climbing around the floats even more than he did swimming. We filled the boat up with pool water and it made the perfect kiddie pool for him to play in. Maura and Tristan's favorite activity in the pool is being thrown up into the air. It's exhausting for Brent, but I just had to capture it in photos. I loved checking out their faces. Tristan's is the picture of joy.


Maura's is not so joyful! Every photo I have of her being thrown in the air looks just like this--rigid arms, grimace on her face. So funny--she loves being thrown and she swims well, but it must be stressful to her on takeoff! Even Bennett likes being thrown--just kidding. We just fly him up out of the water and he loves it!


Tristan has a fascination with the hose that I don't think I'll ever be able to cure. If he had it his way, the hose would be on all the time so that he could drink from it and spray everyone within reach. Such a boy! I'm sure Bennett will be just like him in a few years!


That evening, Grammy made a big
spaghetti and meatball supper for us all--Bennett's favorite meal. We all took turns cooking all week, which is so much easier than taking this big group out to dinner--and so much more relaxing for those of us who weren't cooking! Bennett chowed down and then it was time for cake. He wasn't sure what to think when we all sang him "Happy Birthday!"


He was certainly a fan of the cake! What a mess! Our celebration was the perfect way to end our beach vacation. It was such an awesome week that we didn't want it to end, but I feel pretty certain that we'll make it back to the beautiful Outer Banks again someday.

